Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Please don't ridicule a 498A guy !

I am not sure if you genuinely don't know what is the Law of the land or it was sarcasm.  In case you don't know the law, please read on, else I think its time you can change the tone, as the person in question is also a primary victim of current circumstances. That person has lost family, health ,career, peace of mind & etc, etc, due to false allegations. Kindly respect his pain and love.

IPC 498A or popularly known as Dowry harassment case is a Cognizable, Non-compoundable and Non-Bailable offence: Cognizable which means any one reading the paper can understand that the offence has been committed ( Funny .. explains why 98% cases are false :-) ), Non-Compoundable the complainant cannot take it back the complaint on their own whim and Non-Bailable meaning they need to approach the magistrate to stay out of the jail. Same thing applies to offences under section 3 & 4 of the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961.

Now coming to the point of Anticipatory Bail. CrPC 438 empowers the Court of Sessions (above Magistrate) with the power to provide protection to citizens against unlawful or unwanted or whimsical etc. arrest by the police. Basically a person who can demonstrate a reasonable apprehension of arrest can approach a Court of Sessions (or higher) to apply for something called an anticipatory bail. The judge usually considers the merits of the case along with the social stature of the person and issues them conditions that have to be followed in case they are arrested by the police. Such conditions have to be literally followed by the alleged (whether truly or falsely accused).

Some people can get multiple anticipatory bails , person I know has taken anticipatory bail thrice in different cities to save themselves from false allegations. There are many men and women thrown in to prison including parents-in-laws above 60 years of age and there are instances of taking Anticipatory bail for 7 month baby ! No doubt such draconian law is called "Legal Terrorism" by the Hon'ble Supreme Court of India.

You can confirm this with a local lawyer on these matters or by googling on law related sites.Please see to that's it an Indian Law related page.

I will explain the painful process of bail and the pain of fighting false criminal cases and how the family breaking mafia makes money in another post.. Until then..as usual .. Love for u!

Disclaimer: the author shares his own experience and interpretations and this cannot be construed as his personal opinion and its not an on-line advice forum. This article is meant for awareness purpose only and has no other intentions directly or indirectly.People in need of help in false cases are advised to contact a lawyer or human rights NGOs for further advice.

Friday, November 30, 2012

More myths about Men's rights ...

This is a wonderful document in PDF format, released on International Men's Day, on 19th November (Is it.. do we have a Men's day also???)  which lists the common myths about Men and their so called "Domination" in the society.

People are startled when somebody talks of men's rights ? Why should men fight for rights ? Aren't they the dominant gender in this world ? Especially in country like India ?

No.. its a myth.. the fact is Everyday, Men, lose their right for the love of their family in India. Here is a collection ...http://indianmensday.files.wordpress.com/2011/11/equalityformen-mythorreality-a4.pdf  

Title: EQUALITY FOR MEN - MYTH OR REALITY

This should be read by young ladies and especially young men.

Lets pick and choose from our heritage those traditions which help us build a gender unbiased society !
We abolished Sati, Lets abolish Gender Biased Laws also !

Lets live as Men & Women with Self respect, Honor and mutual understanding !

Long live the Gender Unbiased Society !

Saturday, September 15, 2012

The Hype & Myth #1 Society's love for masculinity

There is lot of hype about society's bias towards males, esp. Male children are most preferred!

Let me justify why its hype ?

1. Male child is to protect and provide.. Protect and die for the society or county with some cheap words like patriotism etc. To work hard like a donkey all his life so who ever is on top of the pyramid (King/Queen, or Matriach/Patriach or Politician(its unisex)) Similar to the humans cultivated in egg shells in Matrix movie.

2. An accident 50 died out of which 2 were women. So which means all 48 can die ! What a stupid way of looking at things - no , the society is actually happy about dying men. Its part of an intelligent scheme for the top people to be on top

3. Frame gender biased rules and keep men down so that they dont think about thier rights ! Want to know more about them.. just google 498A, Domestic Violence Act 2005.. Is it just in India.. in most so called developed countries too.. Some countries have really developed and they make it gender neutral...

4. Always the Inflation was high.. why ? only then you will lose most of your time in finding food/shelter for your family.. No man on top will reduce the price rise.. Artificial demand and unplanned expansion will continue for people on top of pyramid..


Am I talking Communism.. definitely NOT.. its anthropology !

May be I am wrong.. let me know..


Why does Man love Woman ?

Sathiyama I dont know the answer !
After lot of before thought and after that I find its neither opposite poles attract or as prescribed in Bible/Qoran or Gita ( I meant the one with Bhagawad as the Initial)

Its mostly a chemical reaction! Yes, I meant its hormonal chemistry that makes the human life sustain.

I  think same is the case with why Woman loves man !

But Why does one man loves only one woman ? and vice versa , I dont think its mostly because of social conditioning always ! (like social pressure of monogamy etc..)..

There is something more to it .. search for a soul mate and stuff like that..Which is good to write and read but doesnt make any sense to many of us !

What I understand is most couple dont understand that..
they cannot understand this... :-)

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Adamant or Adam-meant ?

oh yeah! I know you will have this question !

Usually people who talk about equality, misuse of power, strict alignment to law, being straight-forward and honest are labelled "adamant" ! (meaning of adamant). In fact, another meaning of adamant is a "Diamond/gem".

But adamant is usually used in negative connotation that these people are against the society and are expected to be violent. Hence the immediate reaction of the society is either out-casting or slander or violence. They say "He/She will not change unless taught a lesson (beaten up)".

But me, I am against violence of any form ! why ?
1. I dont like to use it and win, such win just demeans myself
2. Honestly because I am not good at it !

Remember Mohandas Karamchand ?

So I mean to say "Adamant" is they are sticking to a post, firm on the ground and its nothing negative!

But that's not the title.. its "Adam-meant"...

Mainly I want the society to listen to what Adam meant .. i.e. the voice of a man, a father and a victim of grand scheme of  male-hatred..

Don't just hear my voice.. Kindly listen to it...!

Adam-meant... Are you listening ???

What Adam meant ?

Hello world!
Adam-meant, what will this add to the blogosphere ?
First , about the Title : Adameant
             Adam meant is an acronym (as you guessed rightly) for "What Adam Meant?".

Adam is the symbol for man, manhood, masculinity etc. moreover he was the first father and more relevantly he was the one who paid for the mistakes made by woman and society.



In this space, I will be talking about
1. Misandry - How men are subjected to violence because of the jingoistic male hatred in our societies
2. Having peaceful, happening & happy family life
3. Peaceful legal resistance to the serpents of the society who get material benefits from the self-supervised (non-existent) gender war !

Your kisses, wishes and flying dishes are welcome!

(Remember this is a family man's site: Any slanderous, illegal, foul language will not be permitted, and you will be asked to "Stand up on the bench"!)